For Women's Groups & Conferences

A keynote that hands every woman in the room the director's chair.

For rooms full of women doing it all, and quietly running on empty. Nicole brings the laughter, the honesty, and five tools they'll use before the next morning's coffee.

For Women's Groups & Conferences

A keynote that hands every woman in the room the director's chair.

For rooms full of women doing it all, and quietly running on empty. 

Nicole brings the laughter, the honesty, and five tools they'll use before the next morning's coffee.

WHY NICOLE (FOR THIS ROOM)?

She's lived the highlight reel and the behind-the-scenes.

Nicole spent years as the TV anchor with the perfect smile and a drinking problem nobody saw. She got sober at 37, was diagnosed with breast cancer on her 40th birthday, and rebuilt her life around one idea: what you look for is what you see. Women's audiences don't get a polished expert talking down from a stage. They get someone who has lived both versions of the story, and is honest and hilarious about the difference.

The sESSION

Shift the Script

Stop running on autopilot and start directing the life you actually want.

Someone cuts you off in traffic. A snippy email lands. You walk in the door to a messy house. Most of us react on autopilot, and then wonder why we feel stuck in a story we didn't choose. In this keynote, Nicole hands audiences the director's chair.

Through laugh-out-loud stories (including how a positive viewpoint literally won her more than $70,000 on Wheel of Fortune), Nicole shows that the first thought is automatic, but the next one is where your power lives. Audiences learn how to catch the thought before it catches them, turn their have-tos into get-tos, and start looking for what they actually want to see. This isn't a feel-good message. It's a working one, and it starts the moment they leave the room.

Participants leave able to:

Interrupt the automatic thoughts that hijack their mood and their day

Use the have-to versus get-to shift to change how work and home feel

Practice noticing differently, because what you look for is what you see

Write the next scene of their story on purpose instead of on autopilot

Available as a keynote, workshop, or half-day.
Ideal for women's conferences, chambers, community groups, retreats, and leadership events.

The sESSION

Shift the Script

Stop running on autopilot and start directing the life you actually want.

Someone cuts you off in traffic. A snippy email lands. You walk in the door to a messy house. Most of us react on autopilot, and then wonder why we feel stuck in a story we didn't choose. In this keynote, Nicole hands audiences the director's chair.

Through laugh-out-loud stories (including how a positive viewpoint literally won her more than $70,000 on Wheel of Fortune), Nicole shows that the first thought is automatic, but the next one is where your power lives. Audiences learn how to catch the thought before it catches them, turn their have-tos into get-tos, and start looking for what they actually want to see. This isn't a feel-good message. It's a working one, and it starts the moment they leave the room.

Participants leave able to:

Interrupt the automatic thoughts that hijack their mood and their day

Use the have-to versus get-to shift to change how work and home feel

Practice noticing differently, because what you look for is what you see

Write the next scene of their story on purpose instead of on autopilot

Available as a keynote, workshop, or half-day.
Ideal for women's conferences, chambers, community groups, retreats, and leadership events.

What women's audiences say

The talk they're still texting each other about.

Nicole has spoken to women's conferences, community organizations, chambers, and retreats across the country.

"A challenging and encouraging talk, filled with personal stories and the reminder that we are all living in our own movie, with the agency to change the parts of the narrative we don't want to live in. We have so much power to be kind to ourselves and others."

— Roxanne Engstrom

"Nicole is a giant ball of charismatic, exuberant joy and real kindness. If you have a chance to hear her speak, run, don't walk."

— Cassandra Pickett

What women's audiences say

The talk they're still texting each other about.

Nicole has spoken to women's conferences, community organizations, chambers, and retreats across the country.

"A challenging and encouraging talk, filled with personal stories and the reminder that we are all living in our own movie, with the agency to change the parts of the narrative we don't want to live in. We have so much power to be kind to ourselves and others."

— Roxanne Engstrom

"Nicole is a giant ball of charismatic, exuberant joy and real kindness. If you have a chance to hear her speak, run, don't walk."

— Cassandra Pickett

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Give the women in your room the director's chair.

A 20-minute discovery call about your event, your audience, and the story you want them to leave with. No pressure.