You, Me and Him. (The end of my sabbatical.)

When I decided to take a sabbatical at the beginning of the summer, I knew I’d be back, but I had no idea when. Or how. How could I possibly pour into others about the goodness of God and people when my faith in both were on shaky ground? Let me back up and get

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Thank you for 10 years of sharing kindness through my column

I met Tom at the gym 10 years ago. In his mid-70s, he was bold enough to say what he thought. “Young lady, you’re the one writing that new column in the paper, right? ‘Kindness is Contagious’? I want to tell you I’m praying for you. When you do God’s work, the enemy takes notice.

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Kindergarten kindness goes round and round

When my son was in kindergarten, his teacher allowed me to sneak into the classroom once a week to talk about kindness with the kids. It was the most difficult and delightful experience I’ve ever had. Any discussion about a kind character in a book usually spiraled into a goldfish dying or a loose tooth.

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Kindness makes the ordinary extraordinary

Isn’t it fun when we’re just going about life as usual and kindness steps in to make the day special? That happened recently to a woman in Wisconsin who shared this story with me. “It was a regular grocery shopping Tuesday. Alaina, our 5-year-old, was taking a break from virtual kindergarten and tagging along. “As

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Kindness is like an Easter egg hunt

Every once in a while I want to borrow a small child. I don’t need to keep them, I already have three of my own. I just need a little one for special occasions. Like when I’m at a parade and really want the Tootsie Rolls that come raining down at my feet. Or when

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Go old school with your kindness

Every community has its prominent figures, and Aberdeen, S.D., is no different. Don Meyer is a legendary basketball coach in these parts. In fact, there is a marble bust of Don just outside my husband’s door in the Northern State University basketball offices. My husband can see it staring through the window at him. No

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Kindness makes us visible

I drank a lot during the first 10 years of my marriage. What started out as a social pastime became a coping mechanism. My husband is a college basketball coach, so I shouldn’t have been surprised, but it seemed like he was always on the road recruiting or competing. That left me at home putting

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