Kindness makes its own rules

I am a rule follower. It makes me very nervous when someone uses a discount card that doesn’t belong to them or parks in an area that is designated for a specific business. I do like to speed, but that’s another story. My friend, Amanda, is also a rule follower. We both know that sometimes

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Be impatient

I got to speak for the first time in Aberdeen last Friday. The place was packed with new friends, and as I stood there, I felt grateful. At the end of my talk, I asked if anyone wanted to share their own story of kindness. A woman named Liz raised her hand. (For the record,

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Getting kindness wrong gives us the chance to make it right

I often forget what a tough spot my kids are in each day. I send them off to school and ask them to be kind, but sometimes that gets confusing. When the teacher is talking but a friend is trying to get your attention, what is the kind solution? When you’re trying to do your

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When stupid thoughts steal your sleep

Have you ever had one of those nights where you’re almost asleep and your mind floats off and you’re sort of dreaming your way into blissful unconsciousness? Then all of a sudden those random thoughts form a real thought and BOOM! you’re wide awake? I asked my daughter if that ever happens to her and

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Kindness set the tone in teacher’s classroom

You know how teachers have favorite grade levels? The ones who teach middle school will tell you they love helping kids work through the uncertainty and challenges that come with being a new teen. The ones in high school enjoy developing the gifts of young people finding their way in the world. And the teachers

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I need your mad cooking skills

I want to say something brilliant right now, something that will make your day ah-mazing, but my mind is stuck in a rut and only you can get me out. Two of my three kids are in such vigorous extracurricular activities after school (football and cross country) that they need to eat real food (protein,

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‘Flower Lady’ brings beauty through kindness

Did you know there is a North Dakota “Best for Last” club? I learned about it when some friends, who are visiting all 50 states, decided to swing by for a visit. They are on their way to Fargo to set foot in their final state. You might say they saved the “best for last.”

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