The little things are the big things

The resilience we’ve each had to learn through COVID will be a tool we rely on for the rest of our lives. That’s certainly one benefit of the last few months. One more benefit I’ve seen is the realization that little things really do matter. I used to get caught up in the hustle, and

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Kind words hold new power

Sometimes we get numb to certain words. Phrases like, “How are you?” or “I’m praying for you,” or “You’re in my thoughts,” should mean something, but oftentimes they are said so flippantly that they begin to lose their meaning. Gretchen Robinson, from South Hill, Va., found the power of kindness that lives in those words

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Kindness doesn’t need a response

Can you believe some people aren’t huggers? I’m going through hug withdrawal thanks to COVID, but I know other people who are grateful for the physical distancing rules. I was speaking at a high school a few years ago when a shy girl walked up to me to share something painful that was on her

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Don’t just think it, do it

New friends, old friends — sometimes, we just need a friend. This past May, on my 45th birthday, I got a text from a high school friend. We keep up with each other’s families on Facebook, but that’s about it. Still, when we do talk, it’s like there has been no passage of time. Along

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Kindness creates COVID-proof marriages

Does anyone else feel like marriage is a tricky thing during COVID-19? I say that only sort of jokingly. My husband and I had a conversation the other day about how different our daily interactions are with each other. Normally, as a college basketball coach, Saul is on the road recruiting or heading to away

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Sharing our stories shows great kindness

Have you ever been encouraged by someone else’s story? I bet you have. It’s a special brand of kindness to share our vulnerabilities because it reminds others in their scariest moments that we’re not alone. Fargo resident Pat Pobst recalls a time many years ago that she needed to draw on another family’s story. “Back

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There is no ‘me you should be’

I love sharing stories of people going out of their way to help others. Or the ones where a person was having a bad day and kindness showed up just when they needed it. There is so much goodness happening in the world; people reaching out through the anger and fear to remind others they

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